Little Bits: On Process Art vs. Setting Boundaries

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So it’s been quiet on the blog as of late. This usually just means that I am up to my neck in motherhood and several projects…projects that I’m getting crazy excited to share with you when the time is right!

The boys are rapidly wrapping up school and we are also in the middle of moving (yes, we’re terribly sad to leave this home – our favorite by far. And let’s be honest, there are few things in life that stress me out more than moving…big deep breath…) so things are a bit hectic to say the least.

And to keep little hands busy while we toil away we of course often have a few art supplies on hand. I don’t do a lot of process art projects on my blog – where it’s all about the experience of working with the medium as opposed the end result but I do feel like it’s valuable. Kids love it and it’s a good opportunity to familiarize themselves with art mediums, color and their own inclinations. And it’s just a nice release for them.

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Having said that…I don’t think it’s the only avenue of artistic expression for children. Often times we think we have to let the child choose everything…the colors, the medium, the topic, etc. We’re afraid that if we put too many parameters on their art, that we will be stifling them, not letting our kids really express themselves, etc. But through my artistic journey I have found that nothing gets the creative juices flowing like “restrictions”. If you narrow your options, then all of the sudden the ideas just start flowing…Take for example Picasso. He was an exceptionally talented realist for a while and then he transitioned into what we call his “blue” period where he literally painted everything in blue. Through this restriction his voice suddenly began to reveal itself. He then went on restricting himself and the cubist Picasso we know and love today was largely born out of this shift in approach and how he viewed the world through his art.

Another way of looking at it is by comparing the learning of visual art to other artistic fields, such as dance. Of course the parallels are not perfect (as all art forms have their own unique parameters and applications) but I still think it’s an effective comparison. Take for example free style dance. It’s great for kids as it helps them to let loose, to familiarize themselves with their bodies, to exercise and to just let the world go and boogie. It’s great fun right? But when it comes to learning dance you wouldn’t stop there. If you want your child to learn dance as a skill you would enroll them in a class that taught them a specific type of dance, such as ballet, tap, jazz, hip hop, etc. You would perhaps expose them to a number of techniques so that they could then discover which style suited them best. And of course within this process you would assume the teacher would teach a specific technique and expect your child to abide by it. They teacher wouldn’t say, “Oh look at Tommy over there. He’s not doing any of the steps or following any of the directions so we’ll just let him do his thing…I won’t ask him to change what he’s doing as I’m afraid it would stifle his creativity”. No, the teacher would kindly assist Tommy by helping him to connect with the dance technique and would then expect him to follow the steps to the best of his abilities. I believe visual art is very much the same. To actually help our children understand color, shape, design, form and more we need to not only expose them to the processes of it but we need to put parameters on their work. Limit their color pallete, their use of medium, their subject matter, technique and more. This not only helps a child learn about specific mediums but you are in turn teaching them the value of good art and design.

I’m a firm believer that art is a skill that can be taught and that creativity is something that can be cultivated. Yes some kids will be better at it, just as some pick up baseball or the piano as if they had a knack for it from the get-go, but all kids will benefit from the thoughtful exposure to art. Exposure where limits and boundaries are a natural and expected part of the learning process. And trust me, you kids will thank you for it. Their confidence will grow as they see that yes indeed they have the ability to create amazing things, once given the proper technique and tools.

Hand stamped and painted flowers for Mother’s Day

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I can’t hide just how head over heels I am for this simple and meaningful Mother’s Day craft. This past weekend I had my boy’s get together to make a craft for the upcoming Mother’s Day holiday. I decided I wanted it to be something not only meaningful but simple and keepsake worthy. And after thinking for just a bit, I knew just what to do.

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We started by making simple floral stamps from craft foam and wooden blocks. We went with a tulip shape and a simple circle. I then gave the boys some black acrylic paint and paint brushes. They started by stamping the flower shapes up top. They then finished it off by freehand painting the long floral stems. The boys loved it (and Little O actually insisted on doing not just one, but two!).

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And can I just say that I’m head over heals in love with how they turned out?! The boys own unique approach added so much to the craft. I’m completely captivated by the rough and playful quality of the flowers. True works of art in my book. I even love how some of Little O’s flowers came out “hallow” from not pushing down hard enough. This to me is a perfect example of how kid art often reigns supreme. I have this annoying knack for making things perfectly even and spaced just so…even when I’m trying to throw things off a bit. But kids, well their art is so spontaneous. For example I LOVE how AJ’s picture has one flower quite a bit lower then the others. I might not have designed things that way…but now I’m crazy about it! (oh and it helps if you have painted your nail’s blue ahead of time…)

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And I’m even more crazy about how much fun these kids had with it.

 

And is it OK if I just keep these for my Mother’s Day gift? We’ll do another set for the grandma’s, I promise.

Cloud Room: with Handmade Charlotte stencils

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Sometimes it’s takes me a bit of time to finally pull together spaces in my home. The kids room has been no exception. Whether it is because I can’t make up my mind, or on the flip side, because have a very specific idea that needs special attention and time, or because mom is just too darn exhausted to make magic happen, the rooms in my home often linger on the edge of unfinished. And then every now and again something great comes along, such as these new Handmade Charlotte stencils, making my creative vision and life a whole lot easier.

When I saw this cloud stencil, at exactly the perfect size, I knew right away that I had found my solution to the kids room wall.

 

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I quickly gathered some white Folk Art paint, a sponge roller, and some stencil adhesive, and went to work. And seriously in just a short afternoon our kids room went from sparse and unfinished to simply perfect.

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The boys are over the moon about their new room as well and Little O was perfectly satisfied that he now had a room similar to Andy’s in Toy Story.

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And I like how baby M’s little black rain cloud pillow pops out among all the other white clouds.

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I also like how unifying and dare I say “spacious” these clouds make our little pack of sardines seem.

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And as for the rest of the Handmade Charlotte stencils, well I’ve no doubt we’ll find some “aha” moments for them in no time. Thanks Rachel for the much needed inspiration!

Tried and True: with Polarn O Pyret

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I’m so excited to share with you our Tried and True today. We have been LONG time fans of Polarn O. Pyret clothing. The clothing is vibrant, original, fun, super comfy and very reasonably priced. We also dig the Scandinavian style influence. So needless to say, this brand is a go-to source for each season we need a wardrobe update. And with ever growing boys, and a wee baby girl, this spring we needed just that!

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We also wanted to join Polarn’s great challenge to get outdoors. And with this fantastic weather we’re having (finally!) we couldn’t help but travel to one of our all time favorite play parks. And AJ, an ever fan of comfort, couldn’t be more happy than to outfit himself in this Vrrooom top and these super comfy sweatshrit shorts.

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The boys really went crazy climbing, sliding, running, giggling and goofing all afternoon. And Polarn’s clothing had no problem keeping up. Even these colored slim fit jeans were stretchy and comfy enough for Little O and all his super hero tricks. And did I mention that I’m crazy about their playful prints? This Teddy Dunk print shirt is perfectly bright and fun and is just the thing for these somewhat nippy spring days (not to mention perfect for the upcoming summer nights).

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And Polarn’s baby selection does not disappoint either. I’m crazy about their comfy cute leggins and the color selections they have for baby girls is so great.

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Why settle for just pink when you can outfit your little darling in this crazy cute orange Bright Bouquet Flounce dress?

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And how about this play park? It’s completely made out of wood and completely amazing. My kids couldn’t get enough of it…and honestly, neither could I.

And can you believe that summer is on the horizon? I’m kind of freaking out about the fact that we only have one month of school left. Little O somehow managed to begin reading this year without me even realizing it and his teachers all rave about how he’s ready for Kindergarten. How is this even possible friends? Despite my protests, time just seems to keep on tickin’ away…

DIY Bunny Masks with La Petite Magazine

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When La Petite Magazine editor, Rachel Francey, contacted me about doing a kids craft for their latest issue, I was immediately on board. I’ve been a long time fan of the publication this current issue does not disappoint (the cover alone is breathtaking!).

And as you’re scrolling through scrumptious pages of gorgeous editorial shots, you’ll run into our fun little DIY bunny mask craft. As fans of all things bunny, all year round, we couldn’t help but share these with you all. So jump on over to Le Petite for a great weekend craft for you and your little hopper!

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Tried and True: with Tea Collection

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I’m so excited to share with you out second Tried and True post. If you follow my blog you most likely know that we are big fans of Tea Collection and I’m thrilled to share with you some of our favorite picks for this spring/summer.

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We’ve had a long and cold cold winter so to finally have a bit a spring is heaven sent and a perfect time to get geared up in fun, comfy and stylish apparel. And Tea is perfect for that. As I’ve mentioned before, Tea Collection has swoon worthy comfort with fun, simple and stylish graphics…which are perfect for us. And let me tell you my boys are crazy about the comfort. I’m typically not a fan of knit snorts or pants but these pairs from Tea are just the right look for mom and crazy comfortable for the boys. I’m pretty sure that AJ will be wearing these pants every day after school.

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And baby M, well I’m so in love with this super darling zebra striped flutter dress. So so cute, especially with these chunky little arms. And we’re always big fans of Tea’s leggings. So snuggly and they hold up really well.

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And now that the weather is finally looking up, I can’t wait to get out and play with these three little rug rats. Baby M is really waking up to the world and is so much fun. Just the other night she couldn’t stop giggling while daddy was holding here and chasing after her brothers. Basically all three kids were in stitches. To die for really…

On birthdays, one’s health and a pain in the neck…

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So it’s my birthday today. I love birthdays…but I have to admit…this year it’s a bit hard to accept that I’m getting older. I don’t mind aging overall…but well 35…it’s a milestone.

A milestone that I would appreciate more if my health wasn’t all out of whack. You see, I’ve been experience excruciating pain in my head and neck for over 6 months now and recently crazy dizzy spells complete with out of control vomiting, blacking out, etc. Yeah, exciting times. (Actually I’ve been having migraines on a daily basis for over a year now). And after a lot of research, I finally discovered that my spine is completely out of alignment (as you can see in this x-ray). I was in a car accident 2 1/2 years ago and fell off a 20 foot cliff years before that (in high school) and it appears that these events (in conjunction with childbirth and nursing and poor posture on the computer, etc.) have really thrown things into a downward spiral for me.

Sooo what that means for me and the blog…well things might be slowing down a bit as I try to get my health (and consequentially my life) in order. I’ll still be here but perhaps not multiple times a week. Some weeks it might just be one post…etc. I’m seeing a cervical spine specialist and have hi hopes for a full recovery (he say’s it will take a year before I’m completely back in alignment…but hey, I’ll take it). And if you are one of those that are still waiting on an etsy order, don’t worry it’s coming. I apologize for the delay. Jon is helping to get the shop back in full working order.

 

And now I’m off to enjoy the rest of my day. I’m pretty sure there will be chocolate involved. And perhaps a really great massage…sounds like the perfect dreamy birthday to me…

Mounted Bear Head

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Many moons ago I attended a fun get together at Meta’s home where she taught us how to make mounted animals for kids room decor.

She shows an approach with newspaper here but you can also carve it out of Styrofoam, which is what I did with this polar bear head. After shaping the Styrofoam, I covered the entire thing in strips of cloth and then covered it with Stiffy, a decoupage fabric stiffener. I had the bear head complete for some time but had never painted the face on it, or hung it up…until now.

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I finally installed it in the boys room on the wall along side their book shelves and other random items. I really love the fun 3-D playful element it adds to the room.

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I still have to get the opposite wall put together but I like how things on this end are looking.

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And as for the rest of the room…well I’m thinking that this spring weather, and this new bear head, is just the thing I need to get myself in gear and finish it all up…

Baby’s First Easter

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We’re all worn out over here after a great Easter weekend and enjoying a much needed spring break. In fact I meant to share these photos from baby’s first Easter with you yesterday but we’ve just been so happily lazy that I didn’t happen until now. And we’re perfectly OK with that.

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We had a great Easter weekend complete with chocolate bunnies, jelly beans, vintage eggs, festive hunts, peaceful contemplation, hope and humble gratitude.

We initially had plans to visit my family in Colorado but had to stay put due to some unplanned health hiccups. I missed my family, my moms homemade chocolate marshmallow eggs, time with brothers, sisters, festivities and hunts with cousins but we still enjoyed the weekend none the less.

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For this Easter I also had grand plans of making coordinating outfits for all of three of my kiddos.

And as usual, my plans met up with reality and that just didn’t happen. The boys ended up wearing a combination of different items, similar to what we did last year. And for baby M, I initially tried my hand at making up my own baby dress pattern but after making it two sizes too large and with one too many puckers I started over with a very simple dress made form a vintage baby pattern I found at a thrift store. I decided to use the trim from her baby bunny blanket for the collar to add just a pop of something unexpected as the dress was pretty simple.

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I also made here another bunny hood from the Oliver and S bear pattern. I’m quite taken with how utterly adorable she looks in it.

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Easter has always been a favorite of mine. I really love this time of promise and celebration and I like how there is not as much pressure to gift things so when I do, it’s spontaneous and fun. And I love the message of hope, sacrifice, life, renewal and joy that comes from this blessed season. We need it and we are so grateful for it.

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Here’s hoping your Easter weekend was also filled with life and joy and time with loved ones!